Steve Byrnes' courageous battle with cancer ended on Tuesday (Google Images) |
Several drivers had Byrnes' name over the windows on their cars, every team ran a decal with Byrnes' initials and Bristol's jet black outside wall featured one bright blue section with #ByrnesStrong painted in big white letters. It was almost fitting that this blue strip be placed against a black wall in a race dedicated to a man who, for so many years had been a bright spot in the NASCAR garage.
Unfortunately, that bright spot dimmed on April 21st as Steve Byrnes' courageous battle with cancer came to an end. He was only 56. It was fitting that the last race Byrnes saw was dedicated to him and so many others who battle this horrible disease. During the pace laps, as Mike Joy so eloquently put it, "every man on every crew" stood along pit wall with signs reading "I stand up for Steve." Fans in the stands did the same. Joy's voice began to crack and, in this poignant moment, it was clear what Byrnes meant to everyone from the garage, to the broadcast booth, to the grandstands. FOX also put together a touching pre-race intro that paid tribute to their ailing colleague and fans chanted his name during a segment dedicated to him on the NASCAR Race Day pre-race show.
The end came so much sooner than anyone had expected. We had all hoped that Byrnes would pull through, don that yellow headset and return to pit road. I know I did. But cancer doesn't discriminate and it was not to be. Life can be brutally unfair at times.
Fans and crew members held up these signs at Bristol on Sunday. We all stood with Steve through his fight (Google Images) |
But fans most likely know Byrnes best for his work with NASCAR on FOX. He began as a pit reporter with the network during their flagship broadcast of the 2001 Daytona 500 and since then he has been a mainstay with the network, hosting practice and qualifying sessions and pre and post race shows in the Hollywood Hotel. A major highlight of Byrnes' career came in 2006 when FOX tabbed him to be the play-by-play announcer during a Carolina Panthers game. Through all of his success and all he accomplished in his life, Byrnes was a professional and, while he had fun doing what he job, he took it very seriously and had a meticulous attention to detail.
But while he loved his job, his Terrapins, his Redskins and his Nationals, it was his son Bryson that was clearly the center of his universe. Whenever Byrnes mentioned him during a television broadcast, his smile got a little bigger and his eyes lit up. He loved his son and his wife, Karen and was worried about taking care of them until the end.
Even in his final days, Byrnes handled everything with class and dignity. He enjoyed what he did and knew so much about the sports he covered. That is what made him such a well-respected personality among the drivers and crewmen he interviewed. A classic example of this, one that I think we'll always remember is this interview with Tony Stewart after Smoke's scuffle with Joey Logano at Fontana. Nobody but Byrnesie could have gotten a thank you from a driver after a tirade like that. Especially one with Stewart's disdain for anyone who covers auto racing.
But that's the kind of man Steve Byrnes was. He took his job seriously, he commanded respect, and he treated everyone he met with that same level of respect. You can watch quite a few members of the NASCAR community sharing their favorite memories of their friend and colleague here and you can also watch the touching tribute to Byrnes narrated by Ken Squire here.
Steve and Bryson Byrnes at the race track (Google Images) |
I never had the privilege of meeting Steve Byrnes. Like most fans, I was only familiar with his television work with FOX over the past fifteen seasons. But as fans, we are introduced to different pit reporters and different broadcasters all the time when networks change or when people retire. But with all the different faces across FOX, ESPN, and NBC, there was always something about Steve Byrnes; something that made him different.
Whether he was hosting Trackside or covering pit stops during a race, Byrnes always had the same bright, infectious smile that made him a fan favorite. It was plain to see that he loved what he did and he enjoyed every minute of it. He wasn't just a suit with a microphone asking questions to the driver who won the race. He was a genuine, compassionate human being that cared about the teams and drivers he interviewed. He was a friend to everyone in the garage, he offered a fair and unbiased view in his reports and he was loved by fans and drivers alike. There will never be another Steve Byrnes. Ever.
Over this last year, Byrnes took on a new role. He became a hero. Not only to his son Bryson but to others inside and outside NASCAR who were fighting cancer alongside him. Byrnes fought valiantly and courageously right up until the end. He was up front with everyone about his battle and often updated us through his Twitter account. In the selfies he posted, it was clear he'd lost weight and his hair was thinning. But the same bright, warm smile and kind eyes that had always been present during his television work were still there. Even with all he was going through, Byrnes was clearly positive and upbeat and believed he could beat his disease.
Dale Earnhardt Jr sent a nice tweet following Byrnes' passing. He said, "My hope is Steve was able to see how much he was loved & appreciated by so many. Rest easy friend. Prayers to his family. #ByrnesStrong."
Steve Byrrnes was a fighter, right up to the end (Google Images) |
Two days later, just a week after his 56th birthday, Steve Byrnes left us. His final tweet simply read, "I went the distance." A profound statement that, honestly, leaves me speechless. With everything Byrnes had been through, with all he had accomplished in his life, he truly went the distance. Those four words say so much about a man who worked so hard during his career to make sure everything he did was perfect, who fought so hard to beat cancer and get back to the job that he loved and who was never seen without a smile on his face, enjoying life to the fullest.
Byrnes said that his cancer made him to appreciate every moment more and to live each day like it's a birthday. That's something he tried to impart to the rest of us and I know I'm going to try harder to live by Steve's example. If we can take one thing away from all of this sadness, it's that Steve Byrnes taught us to appreciative every moment we have with our loved ones and to be courageous in the face of seemingly insurmountable odds. We should all hope to be half as brave as he was in his fight.
In the coming days, please keep Steve and his family and friends in your thoughts and prayers. Both Bryson and Karen Byrnes have been just as brave as Steve through this entire ordeal and we should all be thankful that they shared Steve with us. He touched and inspired so many people.
The best thing about NASCAR is that it's like a big family. When one of us is hurting, we all go through the experience with them. I can only speak for myself, but while I never met Steve Byrnes, I have never been so heartbroken over losing someone I have never met. Because after seeing him on FOX for the last decade and a half, it feels as though I've lost a friend; a familiar face I had grown accustomed to seeing that I assumed would always be there and someone I aspire to be like, both as a journalist and as a person.
Godspeed Steve Byrnes. You truly did go the distance and you will be sorely missed. Rest in peace, my friend.